When it comes to behavior regarding human interaction (relationships) , we have to admit that is quite complicated to guess which is the best "Girl" to be. Should we be good? bad? or what? some of us have no freaking clue.
Even though this dilemma takes a lot of time from our daily life, we all know the answer is amazingly obvious and simple!
Balance, yes I know! why? how? when? with who? in order to give an answer to this questions I'm going to put the easiest
example. Fishing! nothing in extreme is good, relationships need huge doses of patience, which is the exact same things that happens when u go fishing. First you need to make the fish attracted to the hook, then, when you finally have it hooked up! you need to bring it close to the boat with "pulling and letting go". Translating this to our dilemma, Good vs. Bad means, being booth is good in their right measure. How to know, how good or bad to be is just a matter of experience.
Now, I bet you're wondering how to gain this experience! simple, well
kind of! First of all as I mentioned before patience is extremely important. You need to enter someone's life little by little, so don't run and send millions of sms, or facebook messages. In the other hand if you've sent two signals and the person you like does not respond, forget about it! please! you always need to have in mind how much you are worth in order not to play "the pathetic good girl roll".
I think the best motto for this case would be: "Give without exp
ecting, but never give foolishly and endlessly"
Kat's Revenge
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